you need to feel it rather than think imaging is enough.
if you cannot feel others' feelings, and you insist it's not right for him; then,you should realize that you are just sitting in your position, and you truly don't know his feelings.
and the most important thing is, whether you know or not, feel or not. it's only right when the one himself is the guy who can make choices and be responsible for his own life.
BD
